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MY BEAUTY
IN THE EYES OF THE
WEATHERMAN
I was having breakfast
and watching TODAY on NBC. Al Roker, the weatherman, started to talk about the
weather with his usual gusto--as if he himself had created it, and would
warrant his predictions.
Then, he switched from
the weather to something unusual and mesmerizing! He showed pictures of women and
men, one at a time. Each pasted on a jar of Smucker’s Strawberry Jam. Below it was
the person’s name and age, ranging from 99 to 100+ years old.
Still healthy! Still
active! Still loved! Still appreciated!
It seemed that the
pictures and the information were provided by family members or close friends.
Born and raised in Egypt,
a country of ancient history and entrenched traditions, I was accustomed to
looking back until my neck ached and my vision blurred, revering and seeking wisdom from
our ancestors—the Pharaohs, the Greeks,
the Romans, the Jews, the Christians, and the Muslims—kings and queens. So I
waited for this part of Mr. Rocker’s presentation to materialize on a daily
basis!
Would it take over some
of the time assigned to the weather forecast, I wondered! After all, the U.S. is
currently boasting the highest number of centenarians in the world--97,000 strong
and rising.
Did not happen!
It remained a delight--once
in a while.
Did not escape my mind though!
In time, it even sneaked into my “Think-About” list, then into my “What-To-Do-If”
list. Not that I belong to the centenarians now, or any time soon. But to be prepared
to give it my best in case my life extends and goes on to reach the eligibility
for a Smucker’s jam posting.
For example, I wondered if
all my current family and friends would be alive when I'm a hundred years old. Would they
remain healthy, aware of my whereabouts! Willing and able to take the effort to
remain in contact with me! Life would be awfully lonely and barren losing a
single person in addition to those whom I lost and still mourn. With my damn
sharp memory, their loss would shove me into permanent depression. And
if depressed, forget about both my “Think-About” list, and my “What-To-Do-If.”
Having a Smucker’s
posting experience would be worth being watched or even zoomed with family and
friends. Hopefully, all or most of them would sincerely believe that my face--with
all its wrinkles-- was worth showing on a jar of jam. In fact, I would be delighted
if they made remarks to the effect that I looked a lot younger than the age
written on the Smucker’s jar.
And for a career woman
like me, it would be worth living the one hundred or so years if all or some of
my family members and friends sincerely recognized my lifetime achievements and
hard work. They can do that regardless of whether or not they have their own; and
not necessarily because they had benefited directly or indirectly from it.
Hopefully though, as one approaches
the mature age of a hundred or so, one starts to wizen up--thinks of the
essence of life and not worries as much about recognition and achievements. May
be at this age, a solace is to be “achieved” from remembering how much love, respect,
and help was taken and given. How much life was a joy and a pleasure.
But apart from my age, despite
of my career, and aside of my good deeds, dear family and friends, please keep
in mind how vain I have always been. Don’t ask me to smile wide in a picture of
me to be posted on the Smucker’s jar. I would never smile freely in it if any
of my teeth is missing, crooked, yellowing, or failing. Besides, I will never
smile in a picture without an effort to control the wrinkles around my eyes,
mouth, and on my forehead.
Now that I think about it,
a good enough picture of me, chosen by a family or a friend of mine, and I see
on a public TV, should probably looks like my pictures in my forties, fifties, and
sixties. Good pictures did not materialize before that age, and stopped
materializing since. So why don’t you save yourself from my constant nagging
and ask me to choose one of these pictures to send for the jar of jam posting?
And while we are at it,
why don’t you also, before sending my worthy of mention, ask me what I think is
my lifetime great achievements!
A final word of wisdom; remember
how opinionated and determined I have always been? People tell me that it will not
be possible for me to carry that throughout my old age. I don’t believe it. But in the remote
possibility that someone or something caused my mind to be changed either about
how good I look in the picture I saw on the jar of jam or the worthy of mention
accompanying the picture--please, please dear family and friends, bear my
sulkiness with me.
MY LIKELY DEATH?
I
sat in front of the computer screen, going through six hours of a defensive
driving course, followed by a final exam!
The
company administering the course asked if the reason for taking the course was to
dismiss a ticket or to reduce my insurance rates. No? I have been in
fender-benders two or three times in my forty four years of driving, colliding with
hard but bendable objects, to avoid spelling the red matter in the veins of
breathable obstructions. I don’t recall standing in front of a judge. I don’t
recall paying a traffic ticket.
I
recall much worse!
Each time I head to get my car out of the garage, questions keep popping in my mind:
1. Do you want to kill or maim someone today?
2. What will your life be like if you get involved in an accident?
3. How do you feel if you hit a human being?
4. Honestly, do you want to total this beautiful car?
5. Can you find a convenient transportation other than your own car? Spare it.
6. Are you aware that you need this car to keep your doctors’ appointments?
7. If a deer suddenly ran in front of your car, will you actually hit it?
8. Do you remember how narrow the bike lanes are, and how suddenly they end?
9. Do you remember all these young, cute kids walking or waiting for their school buses?
10. Can you continue living in your neighborhood if you hit someone or his dog?
11. Is it better to sharpen your driving skills before or after being involved in an accident?
When enough became enough, I looked up the
defensive driving company I had used three years earlier, and enrolled.
That is when I came face-to-face with the consequences of having:
1. Two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight or more lane streets, losing or gaining their lanes as we tag along.
2. Streets that either smoothly or abruptly twist or turn right or left, up or down hill.
3. Highways over or across narrow or wide bridges, up or down hill.
4.Red, green, yellow, black, and orange signals, solid or stripped, with all shapes in different places.
5. Train tracks and all the episodes that end with us, our cars, or us inside our cars flattened to mush under the train wheels.
6. Drivers who are eating, drinking, asleep, drugged, hyper, angry, racing, phoning, fighting, or mad at whoever is driving around them.
7. How to maneuver around bicycles, motorcycles, mini and small cars, SUV’s, buses transporting children and adults, as well as trucks either hauling or pulling cars or machinery.
I
thought that the real coast of the defensive driving course was the boredom to
death experience. And this is not a
reference to a yawn or two. My head actually fell backward, hitting the back of
the chair several times. I caught it before falling forward toward the computer
keyboard once.
Was
I trying to block-out experiences and fatal accidents witnessed throughout the
years?
Did
I doubt my ability to drive under some of the above mentioned environments and
circumstances?
Hum!
DISCLAIMER: THAT CORPSE
IS NOT MINE
Yes,
I assure you in advance. If you see the corpse of an additional victim of the
Coronavirus, the likelihood is next to nil it is mine. I have fought to get the
Coronavirus vaccine injection with the same zeal that drove me to get all the
vaccines recommended for my age group to fight the deadly pandemic illnesses.
Yet
when the health officials declared a vaccine safe and ready to immunize my age
group from the deadly Coronavirus, a vaccine shortage developed and mounted.
The shortage was right before the infamous Texas Ice Storm. But let me tell you
about these two disasters, one at a time.
I lodged in front of my computer screen,
searching the internet for a vaccine location in Austin. The sites of some pharmacies
mentioned plans to provide the vaccines—in the unforeseeable future. Other
sites mentioned that they had got it, but ran out of it. No worry, right? I swivel
my desk chair left to my phone, and start calling clinics and doctor offices.
If someone answered after the standard hour-long hold, he or she did not know
the plans. Some were kind enough to leave a taped message of no-vaccine
available.
Night
after night, I start with a book to read in bed. I dose reading it. So I
realize that reading is not in the cards. I put the book aside and switch off
the light. I keep twisting and turning for what feels to me like all night long.
Eventually, I get tired from sleeping. I free myself from the bed sheets that somehow
got entangled around me, turn the light on, pick up the bedspread from the
floor, and start my day.
Fortunately,
social service centers stepped up to tackle a vaccine for seniors drive. And one
lucky afternoon, I, with thousands of other seniors, gathered around a huge
building, circling it at a maddening slow pace, under the hot afternoon sun.
Depending on where you were allowed to join the circle, everyone circled
between one and four times.
It
was four hours later when an angel in a white coat delivered the first dose of
the vaccine into my arm.
Then,
as the weeks between the first and second vaccine dose were going by, record
low temperatures hit. It was February, in Austin, in Texas!!!
Ice made roads impassable and kept me
home-bound. Worst of all, the State’s electric grid operator lost control of
the power supply, and the blackouts extended from hours to days. I stayed
shivering under a pile of blankets and bedspreads, using flashlights to move at
night.
And
let me tell you, if you have a choice between losing electricity and losing
water, chose electricity. I kept the few bottles of water I had for drinking. It
was a heck of a job to go out of the house in the cold, to harvest dirty snow in
containers and wait for it to melt. Wasn’t used for bathing either!
By
the time the snow stopped accumulating, it was time to notice that the two huge
ash trees in front of the house have been stripped out of their branches. Several
huge limbs landed right at the garage door.
But
this problem had to wait. My son-in-law volunteered to drive me four hours to and
from a pharmacy somewhere in Texas. Yes. I got the second dose of the
Coronavirus vaccine!
That
corpse is not mine.
STATUS
- CORONAVIRUS VACCINE PROSPECTOR
Once
Doctor Anthony Fauci rolled up his sleeve to receive a Coronavirus vaccine
injection, my mission became to follow suit. I hurried to call Walgreens--my prescriptions
and vaccinations hub. Instead of asking me, as usual, what day and what time, the
pharmacist referred me to an appointment sign-up site with undetermined date of
availability. As if the site is on cloud 9 and the cloud is not destined to
evaporate and drop down the blessed cargo.
Desperately
I started to sift through heaps of emails and reflect on calls and pieces of
advice on when and how to sign-up for vaccination. Public service announcements
specified dates and procedures, classifying the US population into groups
numbered: 1, 2, and 3; sub-grouped in phases a, b, and c. As soon as I ascertain
my placement in the classification, subtle and seemingly justifiable changes occur.
What
boggles the mind is figuring out how many vaccines are available for how many
millions of people, and how many doses are to be injected into how many arms. Being
unable to meet the mathematical challenge raises my hopes of eminent
vaccination up, or tumbles them down. It does not succeed in smothering my
hopes to the point of shutting-up. Quit phone-calling and questioning. Relax!
Waiting
for things out of control to happen is a torture! Here is a list of things I find
my systematic, well-organized self, doing these days:
Occasionally
though, I catch myself with a smile on my face. A thought floats to my mind.
Once millions, including me, are vaccinated; we will be fear–free. We’ll find peace and comfort in
each other’s presence when our paths cross.
THE
ELECTION NIGHTMARE
Wednesday,
November 4, 2020 kept me alternating between my cell phone and TV—to follow the
election results. I stayed up till midnight watching the votes tallied to Biden
and Trump, and the states change their colors on the US map. When assured by
all sources that the tally and predictions were over for the day, I turned the
TV off, placed my cell phone on top of the bed backboard panel, pulled the flat bed sheet and bedspread to
cover my aching body, and pushed the button on the board--turning off the lights
extending above the backboard.
At
dawn, I lay in bed frozen to near death!
It
is daytime, cloudy skies, and gloomy atmosphere. People are going back and
forth around me. Gigantic grey stone
buildings with chipped facades stand on both sides of a wide street. The street
is unpaved, dusty, inclined upward as if built on a hill. I had to climb
several high steps to remain on it.
I
am dressed in a beige pantsuit, wearing brown high-heeled shoes, a large COACH handbag
hanging on my right shoulder. My driver’s license and credit card are in a
wallet inside the handbag. Worried of losing the handbag, I keep pulling its straps
with my left hand closer to my neck. Each time my left hand journeys to secure
the handbag, the glare of a big gold ring with a ruby stone on my left ring
finger catch my eyes.
Two
levels up and out of breath, I walk to the ticket booth of a theatre. I buy a
ticket, paying with my credit card, and go sit in a full-house, grand theatre.
The
show ends. I look around me for my handbag and ring. They vanished! Heart
pounding, I struggle to stay in and continue my search, but the audience are leaving
the theatre and keep shoving me out.
Outside
the theatre, I see the woman who was sitting in the theatre next to me. We wait
together until everyone is out and we both go in and look around. Nothing!
Exhausted
and stressed out, I push my way through the pedestrians, heading back to my
car. But I’m lost. Asking for directions I get blank stares instead. So I go
back--past the theatre, down some stairs. I find the paved street. The street
has no sidewalk and I’m almost run over by a car. I stretch my right arm and
touch my left shoulder, then left arm—it is stiff and numb! I keep rubbing it. Why
am I so cold? I reach back searching for the backboard light button, and press
it.
I
remain in my bed until my eyes adapt to the light. I become aware that I am
surrounded by four walls. I hurriedly raise my head off my pillow and look
left, searching for my handbag. It is there, on the top right end of my
dresser. I pull the bedspread from under my feet up to my shoulders, and breathe
deeply. Then I pick-up the cell phone and anxiously search for the 2020
elections--hoping that the blue line had reached 270 electoral votes. I can’t
go through a more harrowing election nightmare.
MY
CORONAVIRUS SHOPPING
If
you see me, you’ll never guess the depth and breadth of my appetite. And what I
consume, I burn doing endless chores. So there is a fast cycle of eating and
shopping for food, sped further by having no appetite for starchy foods or
sugary drinks--an appetite and a half for fruits and vegetables. These tender produce are extremely good-looking yet lose their looks fast, requiring constant
shopping trips. I start shopping for THEM and my eyes get caught by other
things that I think I’m running out of, or in need for. In time I end up
shopping for the sake of shopping. Things spiral out of control when shopping at
wholesales and malls. I could be shopping for pomegranate and end up buying the
on-sale shoes!
Life
was a series of shopping trips until Coronavirus facts started to tumble over
my head. Pretty soon, Dr. Anthony Fauci’s announcements dominated the air,
snuffing out contrary claims made by a certain loud mouth. I listened to
Fauci’s sincere concerns and followed his fatherly advice. He prescribed ‘HOME”
for my age group--the most attractive human beings to Coronavirus. And if you
are one of those people who spent their lives in a race to achieve one goal
after the other, you feel sort of special even if a virus puts you on top of
its list.
I
feverishly started to compile an inventory of the contents of my pantry,
kitchen cabinets, and the under the stairs storage of paper goods and cleaning
supplies. The inventory did not stop at the names of items. It included almost
all the information on their labels such as their brand, ingredients, and size.
Then I divided the inventory in accordance to two main purchasing sources, a
super market chain and a whole sales chain. Now I was ready to select from the
inventory the shopping lists to give to the shoppers of these two sources. I
placed my orders. No substitutions.
At
first, I was elated when piles upon piles of groceries were delivered to my
door! No driving! No cruising through endless isles. Three or four item were
missing from each delivery, but even I couldn’t always find all what I shopped
for. The time I saved by delegating in-person grocery shopping, however, I
spent shopping online for clothes and shoes.
Then
I started to miss more and more items that were on the lists. So I allowed
substitutions. That is when the process went out of control. Rarely were the substitutions
to my liking.
And
how were my fruits and vegetables? I ask you: how many shoppers have you seen
picking up an apple or a pear, then turning it around looking for consistency
in the level of ripening and no dents or bruises?
Worst
of all is the persistent picture popping into my mind from years past, of that
tiger I saw in a zoo pacing his cage like mad, leaving his lunch of fresh meat
to a swarming cloud of flies. The aim of us animals is not to get what we
need. The aim is to have the freedom to
go get it.
Still
taking Dr. Fauci’s advices to heart, I put a mask on my face, wear glasses to
cover my eyes, stick a hat on my head, insert my hands in plastic gloves, shove
a sanitizer bottle in my pocket, hang shopping bags on my shoulders, and go
shopping.